Sexual
intercourse is real. As a boy of 15 years, I tried to lay many hands on a book
called “Sex Is A Nigger.” I paid for the price with a local postal order to a
neighboring city, but no delivery of the book to me.
From the
advertising preview of the book, I am sure it is a book about sexual intercourse
with a female sex partner.
Perhaps, it
got missed in the postal agency or somehow miss-addressed.
Sex is a Nigger
is well advertised in the local and national media. How popular it is that I
cannot tell. But I think it can be equate to “Fifty Shades of Grey” by E.L.
James.
To all intents
and purpose, I am sure Sex Is A Nigger costs less than a dollar. Or I could not
afford it, being just a college boy at that time in either class 2 or 3. It was
1974 or 1975. The book continue to make some advertising news for some time and
later goes out of circulation I think?
A preview of
the book in a local advertising media and some of the National Dailies I read
and that I can remember says to the effect that the author in his sexual
exploits tried to achieve sexual penetration into the female Virginia with his
middle finger, instead of his penis!
Years later,
after I got married, I am unable to do the sex act well but arrived nearly at
this same issue. I realize that the sexual intercourse issue is common with
most men.
Within a
week of my having married, I found it really true. In less than a minute, I was
accused by no less a person than my heartthrob and sex partner for pissing on
her body! In other words, before the real sexual penetration had occurred fully,
I have began to ejaculate on her body instead of inside the vagina as the
normal thing to do.
I can hardly
believe it!
I feel
small, gypped and ashamed.
Imagine I
was about 32 years then!
And in spite
of all that I read in earlier years on sex, sex, sex with the Masters and
Johnsons, I did not get a good result when it comes to do the sex act with my
partner.
Happily, sex
is still beautiful, nice and healing, but many like me could not get to heaven.
From my
mistake or you call it failure in sexual activity or in bed in the very first
session I learnt my lesson to get a better deal of sex exploits.
At each next
session I tried my best and learn a thing or two, and it is so good for me.
Could it also good for you or the other fellow? Remember our body, mind set and
chemistry are not all the same. All said, I ask again could the outcome
hold good for you also?
Every each
session becomes like much of a practical lesson than an enjoyment exercise and as
a mind set. It is an experiment to the core to investigate sexual practice.
And
experiment has to observe certain issues always. Each issue is to be well noted
for testing further.
It is at
this stage that a worthy result is obtained.
My sex
activity carried out over30 minutes. This means the barrier of sex session between
3 to 6 minutes by which most men can be given a pass mark for controlling the
seminal ejaculation, and then bringing their female sex partners to orgasm in
the next 15 to 18 minutes I achieved.
Later, I am
up to 45 minutes, than 60 minutes all at a go! I timed myself well because my
wrist watch was firmly on my wrist. I am still beating the same the same times
easily,
I mastered
it well and gain an upper hand. It became a gold mine.
Now, I am no
longer ashamed of doing the sex act well. And of course, this is always with my
partner.
Twenty one years
later, I still do not know such things are liable to be shared.
Believe me,
it is so easy.
Do I go on a
drug? No!
What are my
secrets than?
I have no
secrets.
Much later,
as I read other writings or rather teaching on sex with a fellow female sexual partner,
I see something in common with what I noted down in my sex sessions and is now
a vogue.
Like as I
say that I have no secrets, can anyone believe me? I am afraid so.
Okay, be now
prepared to learn one trick after another.
One more
thing before I end this talk on sexual bliss here.
Remember
what we eat plays a vital part in doing well during sex. You have to eat well. You
have to eat a well balanced natural diet full of natural goodness.
I mean the
main class of foods that comes in the form of carbohydrates, fats and oils, and
protein along with fruits, vegetables, herbs, roots, nuts and seeds in their
natural and unprocessed states is still the best.
You will not
get result in just one day. You are on your way in a week’s time. It can take
some more time. All the same good quality result to beat 15, minutes and then 30
minutes at a go is the initial goal.
Begin now by
eating some fresh fruits and vegetables daily as part of your breakfast meal.
Another good
thing is that a sound exercise plan is basic to having good sex with your
female partner.
Exercise
strengthens the body muscles and especially, the back muscles, the waist and
the thigh for
these plays a vital role during sexual intercourse.
To your
sexual excitement!
Miebakagh57
(Miebakagh Fiberesima) Copyright 2015.
